Emotional Intelligence: Happiness after devastation, using the "Trad Wife" Trend

I regularly choose to assess how I am processing and reacting to situations, aka: increasing emotional intelligence. In this TikTok "Trad Wife" trend, I saw a reaction from divorced women, warning the Trad Wives about dangers down the road. I think there's another way to react once you process the grief of the devastation in life, which in these videos is their marriage ending in a terrible divorce.